We all know that divorce is a difficult time for couples as well as their families. However, I never thought that the impact on children in divorcing parents was to this degree.
Resolution had conducted a survey of 500 children between the ages of 14 and 22 who were going through or had gone through their parents divorce. Below I have indicated the approximate values of the findings of this survey.
66% said the divorce affected their GCSEs
12% said they turned to drugs/alcohol
33% said they developed trigger eating disorders
25% said their parents tried to involve them in the dispute
20% said they never saw their grandparents again
25% said they struggled to complete the homework and assignments
12% said they skipped lessons
33% said one parent tried to turn them against the other
11% said they found themselves getting into more trouble at school
You can see that these figures, although not massive, are still very significant. Anything that affects a child’s future should be dealt with the utmost urgency. Thats why I support Resolution in their means of handling disputes in an amicable way. I have also undertaken my mediation training to ensure that I can better understand the implications of divorce not only on the couple themselves, but also on their families.
FAQs: Impact of Divorce on Children & Financial Considerations
Yes. Financial stress during a divorce can impact children indirectly. Changes in living arrangements, reduced household income, or uncertainty around future financial stability can create emotional strain. Clear financial planning helps reduce this stress and creates a more stable environment for children.
Having a clear understanding of pensions, assets, and future income helps parents make more balanced decisions during the divorce process. When finances are organised early, it reduces conflict, speeds up agreements, and gives children a more secure routine and home life.
If financial strain is impacting your child’s wellbeing, support options include family counselling, school pastoral services, and guidance from financial specialists. Working with a divorce financial planner can also help reduce uncertainty and create a clearer plan for your family’s future.
We provide expert guidance on pensions, settlements, and long-term financial planning. By helping parents understand their financial options clearly, we reduce confusion and conflict, creating a more secure and stable environment for children during and after the divorce.